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3 Minute Man A Nuh Mi Type?
Three minute man a nuh mi
type, man fi know how fi pick mi cherry when it
ripe.” I laughed till I cried the first time I heard
that song. My friend and I were having one of our
weekly catch up sessions when she bursts out
singing. She was telling me about a man she was
seeing and how he is a classic 3 minute man. Next
thing I know she starts singing the song and telling
me it’s by an Artist named Spice.
This leads me to wonder how many of us
women are sexually unfulfilled and how many of us
are willing to do anything about it. Okay, so
our man might not be “Mr. Ton Pon It Long” but that
doesn’t mean we can just kick him to the curb, we
have to think of the other qualities he poses.
Women are not like
men when it comes to sex. It is not the number one
thing on our agenda- therefore we can most times
forego our sexual needs for our other needs. We
need a man that is a good provider, communicator and
father more than we need a good sexual partner. If
I take a poll on how many of us women feel the need
to have sex when the bills need paying the results
might be quite alarming.
On the other hand, a woman’s needs may
also depend on her current situation. If she is
financially secure and her kids are taken care of
then she will be more likely to kick a man to the
curb for a lack of performance. Why some men arrive
earlier than some has a lot to do with his physical
condition and his health but because so many men
refuse to even acknowledge they have a problem they
will continuously be ridiculed for being “3 minute
men.” |
